After years of relationship views and experiences. I have come to a conclusion that there is such differences between Love and True Love in relationships.
Love and True Love both carry the same fragrance of authenticity and realism in their meanings. But there is a silver lining that does exist in the relationships meaning. You can spend your whole life with both of the terms. Love and True love can be lived together, forever, and endlessly. They both have the same connection of emotional ties. Carrying the same analogy of belief system. But it is in the individual that makes the difference. It is in the individual that will carry the difference and be the anomaly of these two words.
Why is it in the individual? According to studies, Virgins are more likely to remember the first person that broke their virginity than anyone else in their lives. Just as much as that study is mostly accurate, this also can apply to relationships. We can go through many relationships, but there will always be one person who has had the most impact on us. Where we can relate to them in so many ways, compare to them in so many ways. Talk about them in so many ways. That person will always be the person who will come up into our mind.
We put ourselves through many new relationships and meet new faces. Engage ourselves in new encounters and risk our feelings in repetitive cycles until we find that certain one. Or find that one that we will spend the rest of our lives with. Yet the ones we spend the rest of our lives with are mutual partners that benefits us in some situations. Not all endings are filled with the one we hoped to spend the rest of our lives with. But we do find one close enough or different enough to impact and assist in opening our views.
Yet deep down, back to individual, we will always look back on the what if of that one person who has truly made our heart skip a beat and left us breathless for the very first time. We will secretively think and relate anything we can in the present to one person. Regardless of gender. Through countless relationships, short or long term, we won't find significance because one person seems to stand out. Differences in Love and True love is that. True love is a gamble that we took upon ourselves to get out of our comfort zone. They are the ones who are able to breach our comfort zone and challenge our way of life. Yet sometimes, they don't stay long, but some they stay forever, and even some...they are a moment in life.
I can think of all the people i've dated. But there will always be one person I'll think about from time to time among all the others. Its not that we stick to the past or can't seem to escape the past. But we accept the past, accepted that this person did exist and has helped shaped our lives, changed our lives and gave us views others can't. Because of that, this person shall remain forever a True love story in our lives. As for love, we'll always find that one person or another. But for true love, there is only one person.
Love and True Love both carry the same fragrance of authenticity and realism in their meanings. But there is a silver lining that does exist in the relationships meaning. You can spend your whole life with both of the terms. Love and True love can be lived together, forever, and endlessly. They both have the same connection of emotional ties. Carrying the same analogy of belief system. But it is in the individual that makes the difference. It is in the individual that will carry the difference and be the anomaly of these two words.
Why is it in the individual? According to studies, Virgins are more likely to remember the first person that broke their virginity than anyone else in their lives. Just as much as that study is mostly accurate, this also can apply to relationships. We can go through many relationships, but there will always be one person who has had the most impact on us. Where we can relate to them in so many ways, compare to them in so many ways. Talk about them in so many ways. That person will always be the person who will come up into our mind.
We put ourselves through many new relationships and meet new faces. Engage ourselves in new encounters and risk our feelings in repetitive cycles until we find that certain one. Or find that one that we will spend the rest of our lives with. Yet the ones we spend the rest of our lives with are mutual partners that benefits us in some situations. Not all endings are filled with the one we hoped to spend the rest of our lives with. But we do find one close enough or different enough to impact and assist in opening our views.
Yet deep down, back to individual, we will always look back on the what if of that one person who has truly made our heart skip a beat and left us breathless for the very first time. We will secretively think and relate anything we can in the present to one person. Regardless of gender. Through countless relationships, short or long term, we won't find significance because one person seems to stand out. Differences in Love and True love is that. True love is a gamble that we took upon ourselves to get out of our comfort zone. They are the ones who are able to breach our comfort zone and challenge our way of life. Yet sometimes, they don't stay long, but some they stay forever, and even some...they are a moment in life.
I can think of all the people i've dated. But there will always be one person I'll think about from time to time among all the others. Its not that we stick to the past or can't seem to escape the past. But we accept the past, accepted that this person did exist and has helped shaped our lives, changed our lives and gave us views others can't. Because of that, this person shall remain forever a True love story in our lives. As for love, we'll always find that one person or another. But for true love, there is only one person.
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